The Sparkle Project
The version of motherhood we're sold looks nothing like the one we're actually living. That's by design.
The Sparkle Project is for the moms who are done pretending otherwise, and ready to reclaim the parts of themselves that got lost along the way. Hosted by Emily MacDonald, a single mom, feminist, and late-diagnosed ADHDer, each episode digs into the identity shifts, invisible labor, and systemic failures that make motherhood so hard. You'll hear from the experts, advocates, and real women who are finding their way back to themselves, so you can feel less alone in the hard parts and more like yourself in all the rest.
Somewhere between the mental load and the mom guilt, your shine is still there. The Sparkle Project is your space to find it.
(Formerly Worthy Mother Podcast)
The Sparkle Project
Get Out of Martyr Mom Mode: Setting Boundaries & Prioritizing Yourself with Sage Olson
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The title "mom" is not synonymous with "martyr" - but it often feels like it's supposed to be. This week, I'm joined by licensed clinical therapist and coach for new moms, Sage Olson, to talk about getting out of "Martyr Mom Mode" and put yourself back on the priority list! From making decisions with our kids in mind to learning to set healthy boundaries and establish meaningful relationships, this is a rich conversation that will have you reflecting on your own motherhood experience in a new light!
In this episode, Sage and I talk about:
- What "Martyr Mom Mode" is and how we can recognize when we are in it
- How we can maintain our own identity and continue to learn about ourselves in motherhood
- The reality that we can love being a mom and struggle at the same time
- Ways to connect with other moms
- The 3 types of boundaries, and why often times compromise is the answer
- How we can make room for more meaningful relationships
A little about our guest:
Sage Olson is a clinical therapist and coach for new moms seeking to rediscover their identity outside of motherhood. With years of experience working with women, Sage helps women to set boundaries, practice authentic self-care, and stop people pleasing to live a more balanced and fulfilling life.
To connect with Sage, follow her on Instagram @sageolsoncoaching or visit her website sageolsoncoaching.com. You can also tune in to her podcast, It Doesn't Martyr To Me, wherever you like to listen.
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